Grounded Magic
There is no perfect life found at the end of blind obedience or perfectly performed rituals.
Relationship Trauma and Healing
This is a 40 minute Zoom call where we will go over all the important factors in your chart around the topic of love and relationships. This is not a synastry reading between you and a partner.
More like a chance to really get honest about the relationship you have to self. Because that is what sets the tone for every other relationship in your life.
Women are taught from the womb that the only thing that matters is a man. Being sexually desired by a man is not a flex. Yet, women compete for that as if it's some grand prize. Nah. Let her have him.
You're not missing out on anything other than begging for the whole meal, when even bread crumbs are in short supply. See, these kind of men do not crave real, genuine connection. They crave immediate gratification and stimulation that is the same old habit with a new face or name on it.
Men are taught from the womb to own, to control, to dominate. To protect, provide, and pursue. Always assume his interest is in getting you in bed, and not connecting with you on a deeper level, until his presence proves otherwise. Him allowing you proximity is not presence.
Chemistry, butterflies in your belly, all of that is not a sign of love. It's a warning from your nervous system that something is off. It's not attraction at all. It's appetite for the familiar, so they can relive it over and over, and never learn the real lesson. What did you win here? In reality, if he chose you and you obliged, you gave her a pass on certain pain.
When you root your relationships in self-respect you don't tolerate disrespect. If you are consistent, emotionally intelligent, and seeking connection stop settling for men who will never offer it to you. See, desire is a dime a dozen, and odds are you can do you better than he can anyway.
The real flex isn't that you're desired by man men. It's when you refuse to give men attention and access to you until they can respect you out loud. Until you can be admired by someone who makes you feel safe, and not exposed and vulnerable in all the wrong ways.
Men will crave your body, but not want anything to do with your soul. Give those kind of men your silence. Not your cherished presence. Save yourself, not for marriage, but for the man who is patient, offers you presence, doesn't flee at instant gratification, but has self-control.
Love requires effort and if he doesn't want to invest that into you keep investing it in yourself. Give yourself patience, protection, and peace. Lust is the easiest, grossest, most shallow shit in the world. It requires zero accountability, zero respect, zero love, zero connection.
Just resonance. And if the resonance isn't coming from two healed nervous systems, it will never lead to coherence. You will chase cycles that never end. Potential that only exists in your vision, which will have you sabotaging your own over and over.
Let her have him. The best revenge ever is to not worry about revenge. Just keep loving and leveling up your own life, and the people in it.
Soul Doula Session: Natal and Transit Reading
Consciousness enters through the 1st house.
Your Rising sign is the flavor of divinity you came to embody, not escape.
2nd House — Worth & Resources:
Self-trust, self-worth, values, resources.
3rd House — Processing & Voice:
How your system makes meaning through
daily interactions, peers, siblings, early environments.
4th House — Roots & Comfort:
Family imprints, safety, security, parents, cycles.
5th House — Joy, Romance, Creativity:
How your heart plays, how you parent, and what initially
attracts you to a lover or another human being.
6th House — Daily Functioning:
Routines your body likes, service, work, physical health.
7th House — Partnership:
Every partner as a mirror; boundaries that keep you you.
8th House — Merging & Depth:
Intimacy patterns, shared resources, passive income clues,
the deep psyche. The depths of what it means to merge with another.
9th House — Meaning & Direction:
Higher learning, travel, dharma/purpose you’re here to pursue.
10th House — Public Life:
Reputation, leadership style, your visible contribution.
11th House — Belonging & Future:
Networks, allies, long-range goals, windfalls.
12th House — Soul & Sanctuary:
The sacred that makes the mundane sparkle; rest, retreat, repair.
Planets as levers, not labels:
Sun (ego/fuel), Moon (needs/regulation), Mercury (mind/voice), Venus (love/receiving/status), Mars (drive/boundaries), Jupiter (faith/expansion), Saturn (original scaffolding → real structure), Uranus (liberation), Neptune (ideal/illusion), Pluto (power to transform).
Transits as updates:
We don’t evolve all at once (your system couldn’t hold it).
Transits are like phone updates for your soul—
we’ll name the one or two that matter now
and how to work with them somatically.
Who this is perfect for:
YOU IF...
- You’re done with hustle and high-alert love stories.
- You want clarity without collapse and guidance your body can trust.
- You can feel a new chapter pressing in and want words—and rhythm—for it.
If clarity without collapse is the goal, astrology is the map.
I’ll read your chart and your nervous system at the same time.
Walking Each Other Home: Tarot & Oracle Session
I use tarot and oracle as mirrors,
not to predict your future,
but to reflect the truth that your soul
already knows, yet may be afraid to name.
We are creatures of comfort. Growing hurts.
And what we fear most is not failure —
it's outgrowing the identity we have relied on
for safety all of our lives.
I didn’t learn this through bypassing or “love and light.”
I learned it by sitting inside my own shame,
grief, confusion, and transformation so deeply
that it reshaped me.
Long before I ever pulled a single card,
I studied psychology, human behavior, trauma
and nervous system development,
spirituality, grief, identity reconstruction, and
the long arc of becoming.
You are not meant to define your becoming.
You are meant to live it in real time.
I bridge the science of structural metaphysics
with the spiritual art of remembering who you are.
Here’s the truth:
Your nervous system can’t hold the life
you dream of until it can hold
what you feel right now.
We don’t evolve in straight lines.
We evolve in loops — returning to
the same patterns, not because we’re failing,
but because each loop offers
another layer of awareness.
Until we have enough awareness
to finally choose differently.
That’s the work.
Not forcing change.
Not bypassing.
Not rushing to the positive.
But developing the capacity to sit in discomfort
long enough for truth to emerge.
Authenticity is the highest vibration.
But authenticity requires self-honesty,
nervous system capacity, and the courage
to feel your life while it’s happening.
If you’re ready to stop looping and start birthing
the next version of yourself, I would be
honored to sit with you.
🜂 The Session 40 minutes on Zoom
Recorded so you can return to it when you’re ready.
Tarot + archetypes + nervous system awareness.
Together we will clarify the pattern, the lesson,
and the next aligned step without forcing anything.
This is soul doula work.
I am simply holding the lantern while you walk yourself home.
And the truth is —
sitting with you heals me too.
This work feeds me.
It is not extractive.
It is communion.
I love what I do.
If you feel your chest soften reading this — that’s your yes.
If you feel your stomach tighten — that’s your edge.
Both are welcome.
When you’re ready:
Let’s meet.
Your next self is already waiting.
